You’ve Been Lied To: The Truth About Being "Different"

Introduction: Embracing Your Divergent Path

Let’s start with the truth: society has lied to you. From a young age, you’ve been told that if you don’t fit neatly into the “standard” mold, something is wrong. You’ve been led to believe that your unique way of thinking, your passions, and even your quirks are flaws that need “fixing.” But let’s set the record straight: you are not broken. You are brilliant.

Your so-called “differences” are what make you extraordinary. You’re not just someone trying to survive in a cookie-cutter world—you’re a divergent soul, a trailblazer, a rule-bender, someone unapologetically authentic. And that? That’s your superpower.

A Personal Story: The Star They Tried to Fit into a Square

Growing up, I was excited to step into the world, imagining a place where creativity, curiosity, and unique expression would flourish. But from the moment I walked into school, I felt like a misfit. School didn’t expand my mind—it tried to confine it. Instead of nurturing individuality, I was told to sit still, be quiet, and regurgitate someone else’s script.

It felt like I was a star-shaped being forced into a square. My creativity was stifled, my curiosity redirected, and friendships were even tainted by competition. I held onto hope that things would change in high school, then in university. But each time, I faced the same expectation: conform, fit in, play by the rules.

That’s when I realized this wasn’t just my story—it’s the experience of countless others. Society isn’t designed to help people expand; it’s designed to make them shrink. To tame the very magic that makes each of us unique.

What Does It Mean to Be Divergent?

Here’s the raw truth: being divergent isn’t about being “broken” or “wrong.” It’s about owning your unique essence and using it to create something spectacular. Being divergent means honoring your core self and refusing to apologize for the space you take up in the world.

Key Characteristics of Divergent Souls

• Intuitive Rebels: You don’t just think outside the box; you build a new one.

• Creative Visionaries: Your ideas don’t follow the rules—and that’s what makes them genius.

• Authenticity Warriors: You’re not here to fake it. You’re here to be real.

• Resilient Trailblazers: You thrive in the face of adversity because you know that challenges forge the strongest steel.

Finding Strength in Your Divergence

Being unique can feel isolating at times, but in your divergence lies your strength. Divergence isn’t about separating yourself from others; it’s about connecting with your inner truth and finding those who resonate with it.

The Power of Connection

1. Soul Tribes Exist: Somewhere out there, others are walking their own divergent paths, moving to the same soulful rhythm. Seek them out.

2. Shared Experiences: Embracing your true self attracts like-minded people who respect and understand your journey.

A Gentle Reminder

The stunning artwork—designed by me, Steffi Alba Nova—illustrates this beautifully. My piece—a depiction of ethereal figures intertwined in otherworldly colors—serves as a reminder that even when we feel alone, we are part of a soulful tribe. Others are out there, moving to the same pulse, creating their own divergent paths.

Debunking the "Disorder" Lie

Let’s get cheeky here. You’ve been told your divergence is a “disorder,” a “deficit,” a “problem.” Well, that narrative? It’s outdated and wrong.

Here’s the scientific reality: The medical model often labels anything it doesn’t understand as a “disorder.” But the truth is, if your brain doesn’t match the mainstream operating manual, it doesn’t mean you’re broken; it means the manual is incomplete. Neuroplasticity research, like that of Joe Dispenza, shows that we have the power to rewire our brains and reshape our reality. Your divergence is not a limitation—it’s a key to unlocking possibilities that others might never see.

Cozy Moments of Self-Discovery

Today, as I’m wrapped in Christmas lights, sipping honey chamomile tea and creamy Lavazza espresso, I’m reminded of the beauty in creating your own path. Writing for Flow Glow Mojo Dojo feels like pouring heart and soul into a journey that aligns with my true self, and I encourage you to do the same.

Tips for Embracing Your Divergence

• Create a Sacred Space: Find a cozy nook or a creative corner where your soul feels at ease.

• Honor Your Rituals: Whether it’s sipping tea, journaling, or meditating, establish rituals that ground you.

• Celebrate Your Path: Each step you take, especially the unconventional ones, is a testament to your courage.

The Beauty of an Unconventional Journey

Your path may be uncharted, but that’s what makes it beautiful. True fulfillment doesn’t come from fitting into a box—it blossoms when you embrace the full spectrum of who you are.

Why Divergence Is Magical

• Unfiltered Joy: Living authentically brings a joy that “normal” can never match.

• Inspiring Others: Your courage to be yourself is an invitation for others to do the same.

• Soulful Growth: Walking an unconventional path leads to growth that only comes from embracing your true self.

Inspired to Embrace Your Divergent Path?

If this resonates with you, there’s so much more to explore. At Flow Glow Mojo Dojo, I’ve crafted tools to guide and inspire you on your unique journey, starting with our Wellness Card Deck. This isn’t just any deck—it’s filled with engaging, fun, and sometimes challenging practices designed to help you reconnect with your true self, break free from old patterns, and embrace a path that’s authentically yours. Each card invites you to explore, reflect, and stretch your boundaries in ways that are deeply meaningful.

And while I’m sipping honey chamomile tea and writing for Flow Glow Mojo Dojo, I’m also working on my core book—a guide that’s part memoir, part toolkit, sharing my journey of living a divergent lifestyle. I’ll dive into how I’ve embraced my uniqueness, the lessons learned along the way, and actionable steps to help you do the same. If I can do it, you can too, and I can’t wait to share every insight, every practice, and every spark of inspiration with you.

Coaching will be available too, but in a highly exclusive way—for those who truly feel drawn to go deeper and are ready to invest fully in this transformation. However, the focus is truly on empowering you to be your own guide, to find strength in your uniqueness, and to live a life that’s authentically and unapologetically yours.

FAQs

1. What does being a divergent soul mean?It means embracing your authentic self, walking your own path, and finding strength in being unique.

2. How can I find my soul tribe?Focus on authenticity. By living true to yourself, you’ll naturally attract like-minded individuals.

3. Why does divergence feel lonely sometimes?Walking an unconventional path often feels isolating, but remember, many others are on similar journeys. Seek connection through shared values and experiences.

4. How can I stay grounded on my divergent path?Create rituals and spaces that align with your energy and nurture your inner peace.

5. What is Flow Glow Mojo Dojo?It’s a soulful platform dedicated to empowering you with tools, practices, and inspiration to live a life that’s authentically yours.